Saturday, March 13, 2010
DynamicDuoTwins - "Motivational tip of the Week"
Sunday, January 3, 2010
DynamicDuoTwins - "Motivational tip of the Week!"
Monday, November 23, 2009
DynamicDuoTwins - "Motivational tip of the Week!"
module: "Sideline View"
One of the most critical positions when looking at something objectively is the view from the sideline. The "Sideline View" as it is called, is a point of strategic advantage for both player and coach. It allows one to see what the other cannot see. It's one thing to be playing in the game and another to be on the sideline watching from a different perspective.
Perspective by definition: a specific point of view in understanding or judging things or events, esp. one that shows them in their true relations to one another.
Often times we are too involved in our daily activity or problem to see what is really going on due to our inability to step back away from it long enough to consider the true relationship. This is common for most people regardless of your level of expertise or success, we all need a "sideline view" to help us navigate through the maze of obstacles that can impede our progress. Imagine a boxer fighting in the ring without the benefit of having a manager in his corner to help him avoid a particular punch from his opponent. Most likely he would undoubtedly loss the fight. Imagine for a moment a football team playing football without the benefit of a coach to help them determine which plays to execute. It would be a disaster waiting to happen. Its amazing what can be seen from the sideline when you are the one observing. The sideline viewer can see distracting behaviors, patterns, attitudes, skill deficiencies just to name a few. In fact the sideline viewer can see what your competion is doing even before the game begins. Without this view you are powerless to win regardless of how well prepared you are. When you are engaged in a task or project your engagement is generally subjective which causes a loss of objectivity. Once you have become fully engaged you loss the objective benefit, which is critical to a sustained victory.
So than we see that it is to our benefit to seek a "sideline view" from one who is able and equipped to see the entire playing field. If you’ve been operating without the benefit of this perspective than you have deprived yourself of a key advantage and have unquestionably hindered your success. Anyone close enough to you can provide this perspective ex., a colleague, a supervisor, a friend, or even a family member. The key is to be able to have access to a "sideline view" when it becomes necessary to your growth and success.
"When two people meet, there are really six people present. There is each man as he sees himself, each man as he wants to be seen, and each man as he really is." Michael De Saintamo
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
DynamicDuoTwins - "Motivational tip of the Week!"
As a trained certified Black Belt instructor I taught my students when competing in martial arts competition to always focus their mind on winning. I taught them that winning is all about the "mind set". Its when you see yourself at the end of having already completed a task, a project, a goal or an objective that you can smell victory. A famous scene in the the movie "Apocalyse Now" occurs when the commander of an AirCav unit played by Robert Duvall refuses a request to transport a soldier who is considered to be a professional surfer. But rather instructs his pilots to capture a certain village along a dangerously fortified beach controlled by the enemy for the soldier to surf, since the beach which marks the opening to the river was perfect for surfing. Dismissing their concerns with the explanation that "Charlie don't surf!," the Commander orders his men to saddle up in the morning to capture the town and the beach.
After helicopters swoop over the village and demolish all visible signs of resistance, a giant napalm strike in the nearby jungle dramatically marks the climax of the battle. This famous scene ends with the Commandre saying "I love the smell of napalm in the morning... The smell, you know that gasoline smell... Smells like, victory".
" Your mental attitude is something you can control outright and you must use self discipline until you create a positive mental attitude - your mental attitude attracts to you everything that makes you what you are." --Napoleon Hill 1883-1970, author of "Think and Grow Rich".
There is no doubt that the Commander had a certain "mind set" that meant for him both success and victory. Developing a victorious "mind set" must be learned, nutured and takes alot of training. As leaders strive to inspire and engage, we need to fully understand the power of senses that lie within the mind. Many have heard the expression, often said of players on winning sports teams, they wanted the win so bad, they could taste it. Well it's all about the "mind set". Senior Executives will establish new performance objectives for the year along with new annual goals; Account Executives will strategize sales tactics and techniques; Customer Service Representatives will re-visit customer issues and solutions with a "mind set" to be victorious. I'm reminded of a song by Frank Sinatra called the "September Song":
Oh, it’s a long, long while from May to December
But the days grow short when you reach September
When the autumn weather turns the leaves to flame
One hasn’t got time for the waiting game
Remember that whatever you embark on its outcome will ultimately be determined by your "mind set". So think and achieve, think and succeed.
Monday, November 2, 2009
DynamicDuoTwins - "Motivational tip of the Week!"
"99c don't make a dollar"
Sure you've heard the expression "99c don't make a dollar". An expression that means that falling short of the mark does not count as having accomplished the task. Until you've crossed the finish line you have not won the race. This would be true of any endeavor that you undertake. As in football it's not enough to push the ball all the way up field to the one yard line and not score a touch down. Until the ball is in the end zone you have not scored.
"Failure is not my Destiny." -- Eric M.How often does it happen in our own personal lives and in our professional careers that we get very close to completing a project, a task or accomplishing a goal or an objective but than just short of completing it someting happens that prevents us from scoring a touchdown. This can happen to anyone regardless of how well conceived the plan, or how well executed sometimes things do happen. The second question is what do you do should it happen? do you except defeat or do you keep moving forward with an alternative plan? The obvisous answer would be that we should keep moving forward with an alternative plan of action a plan "B" and a plan "C". While no one intentionally plans to fail, planning to succeed takes a lot of thought and effort on your part. It is essential that in your planning that you consider all the variables that could impact on your success. Have you validated all your assumptions and weighed your criteria? Have you developed at least 3 courses of action to follow should one not succeed? If you haven't utilized this process than your headed in the direction of "99c don't make a dollar". Far too many people are satisfied with almost making it, but real winners and champions will not settle for less. Achievment for them is just that "going all the way".
"Don't give up at half time. Concentrate on winning the second half." -- Coach Paul "Bear" BryantJust remember as you climb closer to the top the air is always thinner. You will have chanllenges along the way but they are just reminders to keep us focused.
"If you have the will to win, you have achieved half your success; if you don't, you have achieved half your failure." -- David Ambrose
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
DynamicDuoTwins - "Motivational tip of the Week!"
"Drafting"
"Many of us are more capable than some of us .....but none os us is as capable as all of us!!!" Tom Wilson
"The person with a fixed goal, a clear picture of this desire, or an ideal always before him, causes it, through repetitition to be buried deeply in his subconcscious mind and is thus enabled, thanks to its generative and sustaining power, to realize his goal in a minimum of time and with a minimun of physical effort. Just pursue the thought unceasingly. Step by step you will achieve realization, for all your faculties and powers become directed to that end." Claude M. Bristol
Sunday, October 11, 2009
DynamicDuoTwins "Motivational Tip of the Week!"
module -
"Crossing the Rubicon"
"Having an exciting destination is like setting a needle in your compass. From then on, the compass knows only one point-its ideal. And it will faithfully gudie you there through the darkest nights and fiercest storms." Daniel Boone
Phillipians 3:12-14 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: I Forget what is behind and strain toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
“Success is not measured by what we’ve accomplished but by the opposition we’ve encountered, and the courage with which we’ve maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds." Orison Swett Marden